On Friday, see if you can get your sweetie to participate (if he or she hasn’t already) by waltzing up behind them and whispering a slinky question in their ear. Try something like: what part of my body would you like to plant your lips on at this moment? If you’re shy, try asking: what was your favourite thing to do when we first got together?
Are you getting the picture?
On Saturday, try slipping out to either a pay phone or the corner store and use your cell phone and call home. Test out your newly developed abilities to say sexy, sweet nothings to your darling. Experiment with how daring you get. Risk a little!
On Sunday, plan a romantic candlelight dinner and turn it into an extended love fest where you go on and on about various body parts and characteristics that you love about your lover! Place a note in the napkin and under their plate so it appears after your scrumptious dinner has been cleared away. Tuck another under the wine glass or tie a note with ribbon to one of the dessert utensils.
Have fun with this.
A bonus for this one is that candlelight is the most flattering light for love. It not only sets the mood, it hides any of those “less than perfect” areas of your body. Candles also offer a perception of safety and comfort so you are more likely to feel secure and uninhibited enough to really look deeply into your partner’s eyes. That can be intensely erotic. If you murmur powerful words of love, that’s even better.
Wow – what a week that’s going to be! How can you make your love last longer?
I’d love to hear your experiences with this so please email me your creative ideas and their sexy results!
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC
Sex Educator & Intimacy Coach for Women
Rediscover your passion for sex and have a juicy marriage that lasts!
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