Can somebody who’s had serious sexual trauma in their past, which is affecting their current intimate relationship, be helped by coaching?
It depends. If it is a very serious trauma in which someone is getting flashbacks when they are touched (in a sexual way or otherwise), then that person likely needs some type of therapy.
However, if it’s simply a question of an unsatisfactory sexual relationship right now, due to lack of orgasm, or lack of intimacy, or shame, or embarrassment, fear, discomfort or anything like that, then coaching will absolutely help! If you are able to have intercourse, even if you are not enjoying it (which unfortunately a lot of women do), then you can still be helped by coaching. In coaching we work with what IS working, what you want more of, how you will get it and where you will end up. We don’t go into your past at all because it isn’t necessary. We will look at how it affects you today and what you will do with it going forward. The bottom line is you get what you want!
We will look at your beliefs too because most women have uncomfortable or unfortunate sexual histories and they will affect your beliefs about sex, body image and self esteem. These thoughts are common and can range from very mild to very serious. The fabulous thing is that you can change any belief! You’ll be amazed at how quickly a simple shift like really believing that you are beautiful will change yoru whole world.
Myself personally, I could bore you with the details of sexual trauma that I have experienced throughout my life. Now I have the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. Was it easy to get here? No. Did it take time and attention? Yes. But I didn’t know what I was doing. I didn’t have a plan or know how to figure it out. But now I do know the steps to help you make it happen for you. I can show you very effectively and efficiently how to love sex again! You don’t need to be laying on a couch in therapy for a years, you can get great results very quickly – you’ll be amazed.
Contact me here and set up your complimentary 30 minute consultation to see what your world COULD look like. Isn’t it about time?
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC
Sex Educator & Intimacy Coach for Women
Rediscover your passion for sex and have a juicy marriage that lasts!
250.753.8692
www.kimswitnicki.com
Author of “Great Sex for Hard Times” and “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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