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Here are answers to some of the more common questions we are asked. They are sorted by category. PLEASE email us if you have a question you feel would be useful to have answered here – it will be updated for you regularly! Coaching QuestionsDo you have a Coaching guarantee? Event & Tele-Seminar QuestionsAre workshops women only or co-ed? Ordering QuestionsWhat name will appear on my credit card bill? Sex Toys QuestionsHow do I select a vibrator? Sexual TermsWhat is Fellatio? Coaching Questions
Can I receive coaching if I don’t live in Nanaimo, BC? Click here for more coaching information. Can I receive coaching if I don’t live in Canada? How do I receive one-on-one coaching in person? Event & Tele-Seminar QuestionsAre
workshops women only or co-ed? Is there nudity at any of your
workshops? Do I have to give my real name on a tele-seminar? Are the tele-seminars recorded? Is there a long distance charge for tele-seminars? Where is Kim going to be speaking live next?
Ordering QuestionsWhat name will appear on my credit card bill? How will the product(s) be shipped? What is your product guarantee? How secure is my credit card information?
Sex Toys QuestionsHow do I select a vibrator? If you or your partner like the option of having penetration with your vibrator, then a more life-like vibrator such as the Simple & True or the Blue Jelly are excellent choices. The softer jelly-type materials will absorb the vibration somewhat so if you have trouble reaching climax, these may not be as effective as they aren’t as powerful as the harder plastic types. If you reach orgasm without tremendous effort (good for you!) then the softer ones are variable speed and perfect! You can find vibrators in so many shapes and sizes that once you determine how you want to use it, then it becomes a matter of personal preference for size, shape, color and price. Please check out our online store under Personal Pleasure for Her to see others we have available and also more specific uses.
How do I clean my vibrator? I usually only recommend a cleanser if the toy is made of any rubber, latex or jelly material as it is much more porous than a hard plastic and can provide tiny places for bacteria to live. Please don’t submerge any battery packs unless the batteries are removed. Then let air dry. Apparently repeated use of hot soap and water will break down some jelly products but I think that would have to be a LOT of use! Some women prefer to place condoms on their vibrators before use and then they simply toss the condom away when they’re done. If you have a silicone vibrator, please follow package instructions for cleaning as they use a powder to keep them fresh. Please remember to ALWAYS thoroughly wash any toys that are used anally before they go anywhere near your vagina as that is an invitation for a terrible infection! The bottom line is to regularly inspect your toys for nicks, cracks or anything that seems at all unsafe - and don’t use if in doubt! Can I get “desensitized” by too much vibrator use? You don’t want to use your vibrator for any more than 30 minutes for a few reasons. One is that the motors in these devices aren’t designed for industrial use! The little motors will get hot and not only potentially burn you but they will wear out much faster. Two, if you have a vibrator on your clitoris for that long, you’ll surely be numb! So use them as an accessory, not as the only option. Some women can only orgasm (at this point in their lives) through vibrator use. Some people think this is a problem or is somehow incorrect or not good enough. I say - Why Not?! If that’s what it takes for her to have an orgasm, then goody for her! At least she isn’t one of the approximately 10% (according to numerous studies) of women who haven’t yet had an orgasm! So use them in good health and remember, you can always stop for a few days and build up your sensitivity again. You can always check in to see what classes we’re having if you want to learn more about vibrator use or orgasms! I’ve heard I shouldn’t use good quality batteries in my toys – is this true? Personally, I don’t want to get 70% use out of something that I paid 100% real money for! So if you want to nominally stretch the length of time your toy lasts, go ahead and use cheap batteries. If you find your vibrator too powerful you can try to put older batteries that aren’t fresh in and it may run slower or with less intensity - not my idea of fun but it’s a personal preference. Whatever you do, don’t use rechargables as they can heat up and burn out your toys’ motor quickly. What are dual mode vibrators? They provide a very intense experience and I don’t recommend them for first time vibrator users, but some women like to start at the top! These were made famous on Sex in the City as one of the gals had fallen in love with hers. Couples often use them in their lovemaking together as some partners love to watch the wonderful gyrations of the vibrator and, more importantly, the look of extreme pleasure on their women! They can be used simply for external stimulation but I recommend a smaller toy for that. How do I introduce a vibrator into my relationship? This is such a fabulous question! Quite often men aren’t aware that they can orgasm with a vibrator as well as women. Men have generally not been exposed to vibrator use except perhaps using it on their female partners so don’t get the opportunity to experience their delights. Often men can also be intimidated by vibrators as the toys may be larger than they are or they simply feel that they can’t “keep up” with the speed and stamina of a vibrator. That may be true, but still nothing can replace that gorgeous sensation of skin on skin and being in the arms of someone you care about. So, if you want to introduce a vibrator to your man, be gentle. Don’t pull out a huge specimen unless he has perhaps expressed an interest in one. Try something small at first like our Microtingler that is not even penis-shaped but still has loads of power. There are a number of ways to introduce it to him. I’ll be uploading an audio link soon with more detailed information on this, but for now you can try one of these. First you can use it on yourself and then show him how to use it on you so he feels included. You can also use a small one on him while you perform oral sex on him. You can be gently rubbing it along his penis, carefully moving it along the perimeum (between his testicles and his anus) as that is a VERY sensitive spot! You can even rub it along his tummy or along his thighs just to give him extra sensations. You can also have something small like the Microtingler inserted into your vagina while you make love and he’ll definitely get the sensations then! Let me know of other things that you’ve tried successfully to get your lover to accept the joys of an extra “helping hand” while you make love. Who selects the products you carry? Sometimes the most expensive is NOT always the best way to go. Since so many people have allergies and sensitivities, I am very careful about all of the products that are either ingested or applied to the skin or vaginal area. I don’t promote anything that I haven’t tried on myself. I research ingredients and only use companies that I trust based on my long history within the industry and my feedback from clients. If you have any further questions about this, please email me directly and I’ll be happy to help you out. What are Ben Wa Balls? They will also help improve the intensity of your orgasm as toned muscles are stronger and orgasm involves muscle contractions! I do have a complete DVD program which includes an audio CD and a workbook that is a complete home study program to use these little wonders and rid you of those dribbles! Click on our Ben Wa Balls link in our Online Store to read more. You can also check out www.bladderfreedom.com for more.
Sexual TermsWhat is Fellatio? What is Cunnilingus? What does “69″ refer to?
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